Most of us have been there at some point in our lives, wondering how to get a girlfriend but for some reason it just won’t seem to happen.

• For some it is a case of having never had a girlfriend. maybe time passed you by in your teenage years and you never took an interest, or were too scared to take an interest. Now while most people your age are getting married and having children you are still without a girlfriend?
• Maybe you have just come out of a long term relationship, you have lost your ‘game’ and have forgotten how to get a girlfriend?
• Or you have had relationships before but you have always dreamt about being with a front-cover, beautiful girl that you can be proud to call your girlfriend?

What if I told you I am an average 56 year old, balding, overweight, and bringing home an average income and yet have the girl of my dreams by my side? Take a look at the picture to the right, I know it is hard to believe (I still struggle to believe it myself sometimes) but that is a picture of me and Jennifer on holiday in Florida.

If I can pull that off then anybody can, carry on reading to find out how to get a girlfriend as hot as mine…

The Secret Of How To Get A Girlfriend

Get Yourself Out There – It seems obvious but the most important aspect of learning how to get a girlfriend is being proactive, hell get yourself out and start socialising as soon as you’ve read this!

Contrary to popular belief a bar is not the best place for finding a girlfriend. Think of your hobbies and interests and go out and socialise with like minded people; working out in the gym, going to church, taking part in sports, walking in the park are all simple examples of this. I can guarantee not only will you enjoy the time you spend with people that have similar interests, you will also find plenty of potential girlfriends.

It’s Over Before It’s Started – The thing most guys don’t realise, and potentially the biggest secret regarding how to get a girlfriend is that most females will have figured you out and decided if they like you before you even start talking to them.

Girls have an insane ability to pick somebodies personality apart from the way they talk to their friends, the way they walk, the way they look. You need to learn how to appear to be confident but not arrogant, kind but not needy, available but not desperate.

The conversation – Definitely the most nerve wracking part of how to get a girlfriend, the first time you talk to her. Equally important as your demeanour before you approach her is how you start the conversation. I’m sorry but cheesey pick up lines do not work, that initial line needs to tell her that you are a good guy and just wanted a chat because she looked like an interesting person. These opening statements have been proven time and time again to do just that and open the gates for the next stages.

Most guys have heard that it is important to let the woman do most of the talking and this is definitely true. The mistake most males make is letting them talk too much and putting the image across that you don’t have an opinion on anything or are just plain boring.

There are certain things you can say in response to any girl that will make it seem like you have an interest in the topic at hand (even if you don’t) and will slowly make the girl fall for you. The way you respond to a female by invoking certain ‘triggers’ really is the secret of how to get a girlfriend.

Find Out How To Get A Girlfriend!

The truth is that getting a girlfriend is not down to fate as most people think. Women are driven by emotions as opposed to the male way of locigal thinking and as such there are certain things you can say or do that will make any girl attracted to you on a physical and mental level.

People have studied the female mind for many, many years and have been able to determine the ‘triggers’ that will make girls attracted to you within 7 minutes and all without pretending to be somebody you are not. You merely need to put across your traits in a specific way.

You can be ‘that guy’ everybody is jealous of when they walk out of somewhere with what is undoubtably the most attractive female in the room, find out exactly how now.